The Writing Life of: Hilary Grossman
By day, Hilary Grossman works in the booze biz. By night she hangs out with her “characters.”
She has an unhealthy addiction to denim and high heel shoes. She’s been known to walk into walls and fall up stairs. She only eats spicy foods and is obsessed with her cat, Lucy.
She loves to find humor in everyday life. She likens life to a game of dodge ball – she tries to keep many balls in the air before they smack her in the face. She lives on the beach in Long Island.
1) Do you remember the moment you decided that you would like to become a writer?
The soap opera, Young and the Restless, first aired a few months before I was born. My mom got hooked on it when I was an infant. All through my life, whenever she and I were home together during the early afternoon, we’d watch the soaps.
My elementary school friends would talk about the cartoons they watched lunchtime, while I would be wondering if Victor and Nikki would get back together. As a result, I became obsessed with drama at a young age.
Towards the end of elementary school I started writing plot notes for the soaps I watched. I wanted to be a TV writer. As I got older, my love of books replaced my love of TV, and my dream changed…I started writing my first book shortly after I graduated from college but never finished it.
2) How did you go about following your dream?
First, I started a blog. I wanted to see if I had the wherewithal to write regularly. I also wanted to see if anyone would connect to my words.
The amazing people I met as a result of my blog blew me away. After about a year of blogging, I went to a Blog Her conference about transforming a blog into a book. I was so motivated by everything I learned I started writing ‘Dangled Carat’ days later.
3) Is there a particular author that inspires you?
Yes. Jen Lancaster. Until I read ‘Bitter is the New Black’ I hate to admit it, but I didn’t know what a blog or a memoir was. After reading her book, I was so motivated to stop dreaming.
I started my blog days after finishing her book. I had the opportunity to meet Jen this spring at a book signing. It was amazing to thank her in person for motivating me.
4) What is your average writing day like? Do you have any strange writing habits?
I have a pretty stressful, day job where I work incredibly long hours. (I am a CFO of a beverage alcohol company.) It is near impossible for me to write during the week, so I only write on the weekends. But I have been known to spend the entire weekend glued to my laptop.
I don’t really have any strange habits, except for the fact I do a lot of writing in my head when I can’t physically write (like in the shower or in a traffic jam). Oh, and I often take the summers off from writing.
5) Do you write Longhand, Type writer, Computer?
Computer! Which is a good thing, because if I wrote long hand I probably would never be able to read back what I wrote… Typing has totally ruined my penmanship!
6) From all your books, do you have a favourite character?
Hmm – this is hard, especially since ‘Dangled Carat’ is my real life chick lit story, so the characters in the book are my favorite characters in my life.
But… that said, I think if I had to pick one, I would pick Beatrice Buchanan from Plan Bea.
Bea was so much fun to write. She is a tough cookie. On the outside she seems so cold, distant, and selfish. She is the kind of woman you love to hate. But she also has a wicked sense of humor. She has had a very difficult life, and once you understand what she has been through, you can relate to her…
7) Do you plot your books completely before hand or do you let your imagination flow whilst in the writing process?
I’m not a plotter. With ‘Plan Bea’, I knew how the story would begin. I also knew the twist ending. But as for the middle, I had no clue what would happen with the ladies.
There were many times in the book where Anna or Beatrice took over. There is a scene where the women are in a diner having a heated conversation. Anna started telling her mother a story. I could barely type fast enough to keep up everything Anna was saying.
And when Anna confessed a secret she has kept hidden for years, I gasped. I didn’t see it coming…
Concerning your latest book:
Author – Hilary Grossman
Publisher – Booktrope Editions
Pages – 234
Release Date – 9th October 2015
How well do you really know the people in your life? Annabel O’Conner has the perfect husband, two adorable children, an amazing job, and the mother from hell!
Annabel doesn’t like it but has come to terms with the fact that her relationship with her mother, Bea, deteriorated to the point of forced and strained communications. However, an unscheduled call from Bea turns her world around and makes Annabel question everything she believed about her life.
Despite the fact secrets, lies, and misplaced blame have destroyed the women’s relationship; Annabel reluctantly agrees to help Bea plan her wedding. Little does Annabel know the impact of her decision.
8) How long did it take to get from the ideas stage, to the date of publication?
All in all, it took about a year and a half for ‘Plan Bea’ to be completed. I wrote the first draft in about six months. Then I had beta readers review the book. Then the book went through editing, and I did rewrites that took a couple of months.
9) Did you suffer from writer’s block at any stage? How did you overcome it?
I didn’t. My issue was the opposite, all I wanted to do was write the book, but I had to juggle the other aspects of my life… But one thing I don’t do is force myself to write.
If I am not feeling creative, I don’t write. Whenever I have forced myself I have never been happy with the outcome.
10) How did you come up with the name(s)for your lead character(s)?
Some names are pretty important and I give them a lot of thought, and other’s just sort of come to me.
As for Plan Bea, I thought of the title first. I love plays on words. Picking Beatrice’s name was easy. I came up with the idea and title of the book moments after I read a review of ‘Dangled Carat’ written by a book blogger.
We were tweeting each other when the idea came to me. Her name was Ana so I wanted to name my main character after her.
Harley’s name is significant to the story, and Violet’s I just liked. As for Cole, the poor guy had three names. First he was called Jake. Shortly after I started writing the story, I went to a writer’s group where the speaker said that the name Jake was overused. So I changed it to Oliver, but it didn’t fit him (and I kept forgetting the name – which wasn’t a good sign). The name Cole sort of came to me and I liked it.
11) If your book was made in to a film, who would you love to play the lead character(s)?
Bea would be Diane Keaton, Walter would be Harrison Ford (I am shocked he is 73 – thank you google)
Cole would be Bradley Cooper, Annabel’s would be played by Megan Fox.
12) Did you get anyone in particular to read your work before sending it to the publisher i.e family member, friend etc?
I have beta readers who review my book before it goes to the editors.
Other books by Hilary Grossman
Hilary learns the hard way more than you can imagine. She has no idea what to do. She’s been dating perfect on paper, Marc, for years. He’s everything she wants in a man except for one thing. He’s beyond afraid of commitment!
Tired of waiting for Marc to come to his senses, the couple’s friends decide to take matters into their own hands and throw a surprise “engagement” party. Only problem is their meddling has unforeseen consequences…
In this real life chick lit story, Hilary Grossman digs deep as she explores the good, the bad, and the frustrating of dating. ‘Dangled Carat’ is the perfect light hearted, funny, and relatable story for every girl who wondered if she should love him or dump him. Chick lit readers will be hooked!